Big roles. Bigger doubt.
Hereâs how my clients kept showing up even before they believed they were ready.
Time for the shift đđź
You Might Not Believe Youâre Worth It Yet. Thatâs Okay.
A couple of folks Iâm working with are in late-stage interviews right now for roles that would pay them 50% more than what theyâre currently making.
That kind of leap brings a lot to the surface.
And hereâs the truth:
None of them fully believed they were worth that salaryâŚ
Not at the start.
Not even after 15+ years of experience.
Not until they hit round two.
What Iâve learned watching them work is this:
1. Momentum > Perfection
Theyâve kept the ball rolling for 1â2 months straight.
No disappearing for two weeks.
No âIâll get to it eventuallyâ mindset.
They kept showing up, reaching out, refining their pitch, doing the unglamorous work.
2. Confidence Doesnât LeadâŚIt Follows
They didnât feel âready.â
They didnât wake up thinking, âYep, Iâm worth a 6-figure raise.â
But the more they engaged with real people, the more belief started to take root.
Confidence grew through conversations, not isolation.
3. The Foundation Still Matters Most
As they moved into later rounds, we had to ask:
What stories are on your âachievement altarâ? (s/o Kyle Thomas)
Could you build a live solution in front of the team and explain it with clarity?
Because when the moment comes, you donât rise to the occasionâŚ
You fall back on preparation.
They havenât landed the offer yet.
But Iâve believed in them since day one.
Sometimes they just needed to borrow that belief long enough to keep moving.
And thatâs okay.
The win is in the work.
3 questions to make youâre next chat more human:
What part of your work makes you feel most proud?
Who are you working with when you feel on âfireâ?
If you could change one thing about your industry, what would it be?
#PrescribedByDx
I was listening to an awesome podcast where three (3) questions were asked, which are the âmost importantâ when youâre building your life:
What are you doing/building?
Where do you live?
Who do you do it with?
Iâve had different seasons for all of these questions, and they feel good asking if youâre in a rut. A caveat on these - is the decision Iâm going to make reversible?
Before you leaveâŚ
This is the work Iâm currently doing with others.
Dominic
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